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Parents and Professionals Partnering for Children With Disabilities
A Dance That Matters

  • Janice M. Fialka - Dance of Partnership
  • Arlene K. Feldman - Educational Consultant, Adjunct, SUNY, New Paltz, Retired Director of Special Education, Valley Central School District, Montgomery, NY
  • Karen C. Mikus - Clinical Psychologist

Foreword by Ann P. Turnbull



April 2012 | 176 pages | Corwin

Cultivate effective partnerships between parents and professionals through honest, respectful and skillful communication

The authors draw upon the metaphor of "dance" to better understand the complexities and possibilities of forming partnerships between educators, administrators, early childhood providers, therapists, support staff, other professionals, and parents of children with disabilities. This revised edition of Do You Hear What I Hear? Parents and Professionals Working Together for Children With Special Needs is rich with stories, examples, and practical insights. This book, written from both the parent's and the professional's points of view, provides a developmental approach to understanding and forging positive adult relationships, while also providing concrete ways to advocate for children. The authors' years of experience as successful consultants, trainers, and educators lends this helpful resource a deep sense of realism and compassion. They remind the reader of how essential the parent-professional partnership is—and why it IS a dance that matters.

Key features include:

  • Practical insights and evidence-based approaches to forming partnerships
  • Easy-to-read, non-technical language that speaks to both the heart and the mind 
  • Sample letters and other forms of communication shared between professionals and parents 
  • Stories and examples of real-world conversations between parents and professionals
  • Effective ways to handle difficult situations

Rich with humor and heart, this highly readable book offers helpful steps for self reflection, personnel preparation, and parent-professional training. Educators and parents will find expert guidance for listening to each other's music, trying out each other's dance steps, and working toward a new dance that includes contributions from all—with the ultimate reward of seeing children achieve their highest potential.

Flip to page 7 for a review of the book in the Family Matter @ School Newsletter!


 
Foreword by Ann P. Turnbull
 
Preface
 
Acknowledgments
 
About the Authors
 
Introduction
 
1. The Dance Toward Partnership: Using the Dance Metaphor to Understand Parent-Professional Partnerships
How the Dance Begins

 
Phases of the Partnership Dance

 
More Resources

 
 
2. Listening to the Hidden Lyrics: Tuning in to Your Partner
The Story of Sam

 
The Story of Rachel

 
More Resources

 
 
3. The Dance Manual: Essential Steps to Keep on Dancing
For Parents: Essential Steps

 
For Professionals: Essential Steps

 
More Resources

 
 
4. When the Dance Is Complicated
A Complicated Dance: When Parents Appear Angry

 
A Few Other Points to Consider When Parents Seem to be Uninvolved or Are Absent

 
Concluding Thoughts: We Are All People First

 
More Resources

 
 
5. Enhancing the Dance: Partnership Notes
Practical Suggestions for Professionals

 
Partnership Notes

 
More Resources

 
 
A Dance That Matters
 
Resources for Families and Professionals
 
References and Selected Readings

“This book serves as a vital resource and provides essential viewpoints for professionals. The text also reminds parents how valuable their input is to the process. In the spirit of collaboration, we highly recommend this book.”

Tiiu Presutti, Special Education Teacher, Melinda Sulzbach, School Social Worker & Adrienne Hershfield, School Psychologist
Montgomery Elementary School, NY

Addresses important issues in working with families in a way that helps students understand the rationale for establishing positive relationships with families. It also provides effective strategies for working with families and is written in an engaging style. The students like and remember the Dance metaphor.

Dr Lynette Chandler
Department of Special and Early Education, Northern Illinois University
May 20, 2013
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Key features

  • An accessible, easy to read, and non-technical resource for family-centered practice and school-home collaboration.

  • Sample letters in Part 3 are tools which will help educators better express their thoughts and feelings to parents. Part 3 also offers great examples of the power of positive communication.

  • Because of the authors' empathy for the anxiety and uncertainty that educators, service professionals, and parents may have about their working relationship, readers of this guide will feel understood and validated.

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